Showing posts from May 27, 2012


Have you ever found yourself at home with absolutely nothing to do? You want to go out with friends, but you  don't really feel like company. Sometimes you want to get out, but part of you asks you to stay home. That's where I'm at right now.
  I'm in a place right now where I want to leave home, but I really feel the need to stay in and rest.  I love hanging out and I hate staying at home, but right now, I just feel like staying at home and working out and maybe doing some reading.  God knows I need to catch up on my reading.
 As a result of my boredom, I've managed to do some extra cleaning as well as catch up on some of my youtube subscriptions. I've also added some new music to my collection. However, I'm glad I'm staying at home.  I'm saving money by not going out to the movies, dancing, or just eating out.  Sometimes you have to change your routine and surroundings for a period of time.
I just wanted to write something.

Saturday Thoughts


@DQTheSeries Drama Queenz -My Favorite Things

Drama Queenzgives me life!!!  Drama Queenz is a hit comedy web series from Novo Novus Productions which was founded in 2008.  It deals with 3 friends who are roommates, Jeremiah, Davis, and Preston.  They share mad capers together: relationship drama, auditioning from the dream part, being chased by a fat lady and her son, and walking in on self love sessions.
  The most recent episode "My Favorite Things" will have you in tears.  It shows that sometimes after we've gone through major transitions, our favorite things can help us make it through life's challenges. Get into Drama Queenz: My Favorite Things below.

@ BSlade SMALL feat iHENE

B. Slade has wowed us again with "Small" featuring iHene from the Album Knowing.  All I can say is that B. Slade is a musical genius. To download this song just simply go to iTunes NOW!!!!

Journey To Me

Today I'm on a journey to me.  As a result of a conversation with my bestie Senor Paco,  I will be seeking my Master's in Teaching and furthering my education prayerfully by the beginning of next year.  I'm on something new.  I've been frustrated enough and I've been without for long enough.  It's time for me to get up and really push myself.
  I thank God for Senor Paco because he has really been a friend to me.  A lot of times we need people to push us in the right direction and to help us see our own potential.  When we don't have this, we often times let ourselves die away spiritually whenever we lose our motivation.  I am motivated to do what's best.
  I've also decided that I'm going to move to DC prayerfully by next year. Hopefully I won't change my mind.  I've been really praying about it.  If something tells me not to go I won't go. Right now, I can't go because of finances and other things.
  I dare not complain.  It…

Leela James - Phyllis Hyman's "You Know How to Love Me"

Ya'll I live for Leela James. She is one fiyah diva.  I recently came across her singing "You Know How to Love Me" by the Late Phyllis Hyman. Get into it below

Swallowing is Healthy

@ThisISMartinJr Every Bottom's Thoughts

Have you ever thought about what a bottom may be thinking before, during, and after the process of sex? Well Youtuber Martin Jr. gives us a little insight on "Every Bottom's Thoughts." You are guaranteed to laugh like hell.

Where is My Motivation?

Where is my motivation? Where has it gone?  Its like the things that I once enjoyed doing, I don't want to do them anymore. Its like I don't want to be bothered.  Am I burnt out, am I frustrated, is it time to hang it up and just rest?
  I'm not sure what to do right now. I'm frustrated because nothing I planned for this year has come to pass.  I'm frustrated because I've had to cut some activities off the list due to my car situation.  I know you've all heard this before.  I'm just about done.  Its like the more I try to get ahead the more I get knocked down.  The more I pray the more frustrated I become. Is there any hope for me? I'm just frustrated and confused.
  What have I done to deserve this fate? I treat everyone right. I acknowledge God.  I stay away from trouble. What is it? Is it all in my head? Am I going crazy?  I wish I knew the answer to my problems. Maybe I just need to take it one step at a time.
  I'm just not motivated any…

@AverySunshine- Ugly Part of Me

What can I say about singer, musician, songwriter, producer, Avery Sunshine? This woman has a voice of gold!!!  I discovered her this past Sunday while watching VH1 Soul.  They were playing her hit "Ugly Part of Me."
  This native of Chester, PA who started out in the church and also a former member of the Wilmington/Chester Mass Choir shows us her honed skills with her self titled album "AVERY*Sunshine."  She is a graduate of Spelman College and has worked with greats such as Jennifer Holiday, Tyler Perry, and many more.  Avery Sunshine's vocals will cause you to as she says on her website ( to "Get Your Shine On."
  With her song, "Ugly Part of Me," Avery Sunshine chronicles how sometimes we allow are hopes become expectations.  She depicts what happens when we are disappointed.  At the end of the all we must say "Babe, it was the Ugly Part of Me." Check out and Mellow out to Avery Sunshine's "Ug…

I Hate...

I hate.. What is it that I hate? Could it be you? No not really. I hate what I've become  because of you. I hate your antics. I hate your nagging. I hate your laziness. I hate everything that you've done to me. I hate that you don't accept the fact, that I'm not your slave. I'm not your cash cow. I hate your hatred for me. I hate your dissatisfaction with MY dreams. Dammit, they are my dreams. It's my life.
Let Me Live. By The Way. I hate you.

Me, Myself, and I

Today has been an interesting day today.  I've had a rest day in which I was off from work. I did a bit of cleaning and laundry, but mostly I was lazy.  It is times like this that I miss having my means of transportation.  With it I am able to move freely and to do what I need to do for me.  On my free days, I'd be at a coffee shop, eating out, at the mall, or just at some undisclosed location.
  Well today, I am thankful that a lot of restaurants are within walking distance of me.  Today, I'm gonna at least go walking and grab a bite to eat.  Its one of those days where it's just Me, Myself, and I.  I use the phrase because at this point I am single and my friends are busy or either at work.  Over this Memorial Day weekend, I was with friends, however, I enjoy those solitude moments in which I'm just alone and by myself.  It gives me time to think. Gives me time to breath and to really catch up on things.  It also gives me a reason to get up out of this house f…

Dorinda Clark Bringing the House Down!


Judgmental and Nosy Christians

There's nothing I hate more than fake people. I also can't stand nosy, judgmental people.  This all comes from an incident during this weekend.
  I had went out for a day with the guys and I ran into some familiar faces that happened to be a fellow Christian.  The familiar faces we'll just call Rev. Wife and Deac. Husband.  As I walked into the restaurant, I saw the two. I spoke and was very cordial, however, I was hoping that Rev. Wife wouldn't come to the table.  Well  lo and behold, Rev. Wife did. However Deac. Husband just spoke.  I was with two friends who are older men.  They serve as mentors and a good time friends for me.  Nothing less and nothing more.
  Rev. Wife approached my table and began to preach in the conversation and we talked about Christianity, however she was talking and making references to us three guys sitting at the table having lunch.  It was as if she was trying to "discern" our connection, which I knew she had no idea.  I didn…

Happy Memorial Day

Happy Memorial Day everyone. Today is the day in which we remember those who have served our country and have served us in this fight for freedom, not only for freedom but for civil rights.  I not only remember our service men, but I remember people like the late Dr. Martin Luther King, Harvey Milk, Rosa Parks, James Brown, and all those who fought for Civil Rights, Human Rights, who battled HIV/AIDS pandemic, and many other wars that armed forces could not fight.  Today is a day of love and remembrance.  Let us all come together and remember those who have gone on to that great Welcome Table in the sky.
Love you...See you soon.