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Dorinda Clark Cole - My Name is Victory


Single: A Year Later

This past Thursday, April 5th marks a year of me being officially single.  I really didn't give it much thought, until I sat at my desk and looked at the clock seeing that the date was April 5th, 2013.  My mind went back to that night in which my now ex ,"Caramel," sent me a text saying "I've tried, but I can't do this anymore. Your personality is too much for me.  Its over between us. It was fun while it lasted."
  I couldn't even respond at first.  I was hurt because I had put so much effort, not to mention I had given him myself in ways that I hadn't given to someone in a long time.  His reasoning for the break up was because I'm  "too gay and fem."Imagine that. Not to mention he made it seem like I was a cheap carnival ride.
  My response was "Thanks. You could've been real and told me via the voice or in person.  Its good to know that you are a coward." and I moved on.
  Normally, thinking about a break up br…