You Say "Queen" Like It's a Bad Thing

  In the LGBTQ Community, the word "queen," is often used to describe a feminine or flamboyantly gay man.  It is often times used in a derogatory meaning.  Now remember the original meaning of the word "queen," is a woman who rules or a woman who was chosen to royalty due to birthright.
  Well this weekend I went out with some friends to relieve some stress and to enjoy some me and the crew time since it has been a while since I had been out and about. Well I went and meet a friend that we'll call "Randy" at one of the spots that is known for great entertainment and hot dance music
  Well I met a friend of Randy's that I didn't know.  We'll call him "Terry." Well, I was dancing and Terry says to me "Wow, you dance like a queen," and laughed. I laughed as well. I then said "I know. I am a queen."   Terry laughed and I continued to dance and ignore him.
  The shade of it all was the fact that he was more flamboyant and a "queen"  like me.  What is it with the LGBTQ Community that being a queen is wrong?  I take pride in the fact that I'm a queen perse, because I am royalty.  There is a constant war between the Fems and Masculine men.  Some deem feminine men or "Queens" undesirable because of the misguided stereotype that we are all messy and we like drama. Not true. You have some masculine men that are messy and keep drama started within every community.
  For us feminine dudes dating can be tough because of the "No fats, no fems" policy. However, it amazes me how a lot of feminine men try to butch it up by dressing like a thug. Baby be you.  If a man can't accept you for who you are, then that ain't the one for you.  Some people say queen like its a sin or that its dirty. I embrace because I am royalty.!!!!


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