Showing posts with the label homophobia

The Gay and Trans Legal Defense Prohibition Act of 2018

The Gay Panic and Trans Legal Defenses are so-called "legal defense" used for people who have committed hate crimes against Trans and Queer People. Here's an article I wrote on Senator Edward Markey (D-Mass) and Rep. Joe Kennedy (D-Mass) introducing a bill that prohibits the use of such defenses, which are really just piss poor excuses. The Gay and Transgender Panic Defense

The Word Faggot Vs the Word Bitch Can You Say It?

The Word "Faggot" Vs the Word "Bitch" Can You Say It?

Compassion for Kim Burrell?

By now many of you are aware of the recent comments by a former favorite of mine, Kim Burrell. Kim Burrell was recorded via Facebook live as calling LGBT, SGL, and those in the family as "perverted" and that we are going to hell.  Needless to say she has gay hairstylists, background singers, and more on her staff which behooves the hell out of me as why she would even go that route.  Not to mention she bashed Bishop Eddie Long concerning his health in which she knows nothing about the situation.  If you read the clip, Kimmie showed no mercy at all towards the Gays and Lesbians.
  As a result of her words and hate speech, Kim Burrell, lost her appearance on Ellen and her KTSU radio show, Bridging the Gap.  Well we now know that is a XXX Large Gap to Bridge.  Kim has also been disinvited to the BMI, Trailblazers Ceremony due to her big mouth.
  Now although she showed us, the LGBT Community no compassion, shouldn't we show her compassion?  I'm only asking because w…

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Don't Call Me "FAG"

Earlier today, as I was in the forums of one the infamous well known Black Gay Chat Sites, I noticed that one forum author and regular always uses the word "Fag."  The word "faggot" and any variation is used as an insult towards homosexual men.  In the Gay Community it is also a term used to mean that a Gay person is full of drama and messy.   Let's examine the real meaning of the word faggot. The word means a bundle of sticks which was a burden to be carried. It comes from the french Fagot.  In the 16th Century the "F" word became an epithet for a woman, mainly a shrewish,  bad tempered woman. From that point it began to denote feminine qualities.  However in the 20th century, is when the "F" word became a derogatory term to denote gay men and feminine gay men alike.   What is my issue with this word? My issue is that I am not a bundle of sticks and nor am I a burden.  I hate when people especially other members of the LGBT Community use…

Homosexuality in Nature


California Attorney Files for Ballot Initiative To Execute Gays #LGBTRights

I'm sure many of you have heard about this, but an Orange County, California attorney has filed a ballot initiative with the California Attorney General's Office asking voters to push the criminalization of homosexuality and the execution of Gays.    Filed by Attorney Michael G. McLaughlin on February 26 and received by the initiative coordinator,  the ininitiative will allow him to begin collecting  the required 365,000 signatures to put the measure on an upcoming ballot for California voters.
  The proposed "Sodomite Suppression Act," states "The abominable crime against nature known as buggery, called also sodomy, is a monstrous evil that Almighty God, giver of freedom and liberty, commands us to suppress on pain of our utter destruction even as he overthrew Sodom and Gomorrha.”  Here's another sick part of the proposed bill “The People of California wisely command, in the fear of God, that any person who willingly touches another person of the same ge…

South Carolina's Erskine College Bans Homosexuality After Two Volleyball Players Come Out

Last year Juan Varona and Drew Davis found acceptance with their college volleyball team after coming out as Gay in the rural South Carolina College, Erskine College.
  Well, Since these two athletes have come out, Erskine College has issued a heavily worded denouncement of homosexuality that many read to be a behavorial ban.  As you know Erskine College is one of those backwoods, bigoted, fundamentalist Christians Schools in the backwoods, Jim Crowe, South Carolina.The Document titled "Statement on Human Sexuality,"was issued by the Student Services and Athletic Committee and adopted by the board of trustees last Friday. This does create an unsafe environment for LGBT Students and Faculty alike.  The hilarious and bigored Statement Reads:

“We believe the Bible teaches that monogamous marriage between a man and a woman is God’s intended design for humanity and that sexual intimacy has its proper place only within the context of marriage. “Sexual relations outside of marria…

Watch It Sucka!!! I'm Gay, Not a Faggot

I hate the word "faggot." When someone calls a homosexual that slur, I wanna yell "Watch It, Sucka!!!"
  Faggot is  derogatory word used to describe Gay men.  I was called this by a group of thugs while I got my tire repaired on this past Friday.  They had their pants sagging showing the world their booty, but me a neatly dressed man, gets called the "f" word. 
  Of course I ignored them. However to me it showed their on insecurity and ignorance. If they knew why sagging is part of prison culture they wouldn't do it. Or maybe they are advertising the booty for the right man. To me by them calling me a faggot showed that I am a threat to them.
  I'm more of  man by being real with who I am and not how low my pants sag. To me I am a threat because they want to be free like me but they are so caught up in society's desire for them that they'll down what they secretly like.
  Call me faggot, but you'll be the main one trying to holla at…

Our LGBTQI Family Abroad: What Can We Do?

For the last few months I've had a lot on my heart concerning our LGBTQI Family abroad. With countries such as India, Uganda, and other countries criminalizing homosexuality and ostracizing our Brothers and Sisters.  Not only do they face exile but they face death simply for partaking in one thing....LOVE!!!!
  Here lately there has been a burden on my heart.  I've asked myself "what can we as a community of people to help our LGBTQI Family abroad." I know many people have taken up donations, made petitions, and have fought hard, but I feel there is more that we can do.
  With all the calamity in the world, I feel that the USA's hands are tied. With this stupid lawsuit against our President, the War in Israel, and the Outbreak Ebola, the whole World's hands are tied. Now before I go any further, please do not start in on me Holy Rollers with Religious Propaganda. Some of you all are the reason why the LGBTQI Community is going through so much hell right n…

There Are No Signs of DL Behavior

Over the course of the last couple weeks, I've noticed an increase in "writers," and "bloggers" attempting to expose even more Gay men. There has been recent attempts especially on the Down Low Man in the Black Community.   The fact that often times scorned Black Women, Bitter Queens Spurned by Love gone wrong, and those who have had a bad experience account for those who want to give "sure fire signs" of telling if someone is an Undercover Gay or Lesbian.  Do not even get me started on religious figures and those good ole gay bashing Christians who are most of the times the main ones indulging in the homosexual lifestyle.   A couple days ago I had tweeted about down low men and those who are closeted marrying in hopes that it would make them straight and those that marry to disguise that they are Gay. I had received a reply stating that DL men do it due to being under pressure to do so.  When I clicked on the Tweeter's profile, They had a book …

Evander Holyfield: Being Gay Is Like a Handicap

Good old Revy Rev, Evander Holyfield has ignited a war with recent comments on the UK's "Celebrity Big Brother."   
  Evander Holyfield after a talk with a housemate concerning LGBT sports figures, he states that being gay is no different than a handicap and that medical treatment can fix it. Ummm Did he say that when he had an issue with having children outside of his marriage bed?
  The video has caused an uproar on since it premiered on the internet. Granted he is a preacher and all that Christian stuff shouldn't he be worried about his bankruptcy and child support papers?
  In my opinion the comments were uncalled for.  Its been proven that homosexuality cannot be cured despite popular belief.  I thought Christians were to show love. Guess I was wrong. Check out the video below.



Westboro Church Founder's Grandaughters Abandon Church

Moving Out

Hello Family,
  Many of you know that I a moving to the DMV in September (CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO!!!!). Well this past weekend, I've found myself moving out to a temporary place until I move to Maryland in September.  In a sense I was kind of forced to.
  A couple nights ago, dear old uncle and I got into a big fight over my sexuality and the fact that I am an entertainer at various night venues.  All I'm doing is putting on sequins and giving the kids life!!!
  Well, he started the religious bull crap calling me a spirit and saying that I'm going to hell for being who God has created me to be. He even threatened to call the police on me to make me remove my clothing that I use for BDe'Neice Productions.  However, I'm not worried, I've found a new place to stay.  I may have to fork out some money and budget, but I'm willing to do what the heck I have to do in order to survive.
 Please Keep me in your prayers as I make small transition before a bigger t…

The Black Community: Why Be So Hard? (Repost)

Why is it that the Black Community is its own worst enemy?  Why is it the often time members of the Black Community are hard on themselves?
  These are two questions that I've always wondered since I've come into the acceptance of me.  For some reason, really since high school, I noticed that for some reason I never had that many Black friends because I am "too white." Also because of the fact that I really wasn't "hood" and the fact that I lived a sheltered life, many Black people often called me a "prep," "white boy,"and my personal favorite "sissy." I got called a lot of names.
  For me, I was very academic and musical, so sports was not a major part of my life. As a Black man, I was often told that I wouldn't be "tough." However, I've grown up to be a tough man. A tough man who is Black and loves life in all its rainbow colored facets.  However, with the Black Community, I've noticed that the &q…

@OfficialSampson Falling in Love With Straight Boys

Sampson McCormick is one of my favorite comics. This handsome activist and humanitarian gives the kids such great wisdom when it comes to dating.  Sampson let's us know the hardships of falling in love with straight boys in a recent vid. He deals with the feminine versus masculine struggle as well as internalized homophobia. Get into the video below.

Pay the Gay Away


Live in the Sunshine #RETWEET

"Live in the Sunshine," is what I'm doing now.  For a while, I had been suffering from burn out.  I've been overworked, irritated, agitated, pissed of, and really tired.  However, it has often taken an epiphany to wake me out of things. For that I am thankful.  I've decided to make some changes.
  I understand that I must crawl before I walk, but I do believe that things are about to shift for my greatness not just for my good. I've set some plans in motion and I've made plans. I'm going to do what Ralph Emerson told me to do "Live in the Sunshine, Swim the sea, Drink the Wild Air."
  To me that means "Live Your Life, BOY!!!!"  Living is what I'm about to do.  I've stopped worrying about being single, being broke, and all this other malarkey and bull crap, and I've decided to take life as it comes.  I understand I'm going to have to use wisdom, but that's life. You live and you learn.
 It's funny that I&…

Judgmental and Nosy Christians

There's nothing I hate more than fake people. I also can't stand nosy, judgmental people.  This all comes from an incident during this weekend.
  I had went out for a day with the guys and I ran into some familiar faces that happened to be a fellow Christian.  The familiar faces we'll just call Rev. Wife and Deac. Husband.  As I walked into the restaurant, I saw the two. I spoke and was very cordial, however, I was hoping that Rev. Wife wouldn't come to the table.  Well  lo and behold, Rev. Wife did. However Deac. Husband just spoke.  I was with two friends who are older men.  They serve as mentors and a good time friends for me.  Nothing less and nothing more.
  Rev. Wife approached my table and began to preach in the conversation and we talked about Christianity, however she was talking and making references to us three guys sitting at the table having lunch.  It was as if she was trying to "discern" our connection, which I knew she had no idea.  I didn…