Complications of Life

Life can be complicated at times. It really can. Sometimes we try to find a balance, but we soon realize we can't be everything for everybody and we can't be less that the best. In life we have the ups and downs, but through it all we manage to survive.
  Life is complicated. There is no way around it. In this life we have to make sure we take time out for ourselves and get the proper rest.  There is a balance.  Even when it comes to failed relationships and attempts at relationships, we must let those be learning experiences and teach us what we deserve and what we should not put up with.  When it comes to the past, It may have hurt you, but it made you stronger, wiser, and better.
  These are the complications of life.

Strawberries and Sugar

Strawberries and sugar: a sweet concoction. So much sweetness in every bite.
This reminds me of myself. I'm good in taste and I array beauty.
See how bright the strawberries are? Thats how life should be: BRIGHT AND SWEET!!!
Never let someone's bitterness kill the sweetness inside.
Love ya,

Janelle Monae and Erykah Badu - "Q.U.E.E.N."


Just Say

Just say the truth.
Just say the words that you feel.
Just say I'm not what you want.
Just say it.
Don't lie.
The truth hurts, but say it.
Just say I'm better than you.
Just say it.

You Brought the Sunshine - The Clark Sisters


The Down Low Badge of Honor

Many of you know what the term "Down Low" means.  Some of us remember when R. Kelly sang about "keep it on the down low," in regards to sleeping with Mr. Biggs' (Ron Isley's Lady).  However, in later years author J. L. King, wrote about men "On the Down Low," later creating a phenomena that has become a negative connotation in society today.
   A man that is described as being on the down low is portrayed as being a man who is Gay or Bisexual and denies his sexuality. This man could be married or sleeps with women to cover up the fact that he enjoys sex with men. The man on the Down Low could also have many women, but also have many men on the side. Some of his hang ups could be the stupid "no fats, no fems" policy as well as "I don't bottom."
  As I reminisce over my days of being on BGC, A4A, and things of that nature I always ran across those adds with "top only," "no queens," and "no bitch s…

Thought for the Day

I am fierce!