Monday Thoughts


Finding Love Within

You know, Finding Love, can be a job of sorts.  Often times we make lists of what we want and what we don't want. Sometimes we make realistic goals and sometimes we make some not so realistic goals. Sometimes we rush to find love, not realizing that we are lacking something key; LOVE WITHIN!!!
  Love from within is that love that you have for yourself. Despite what other people tell you, you know that you are worthy of love. You must love yourself enough not to let anyone use or abuse you.  That love from within causes you to dig in deep and find that strength to fight on another day.  Finding that love within means that you accept yourself regardless of what haters may say.
  Lover yourself before trying to love someone else!!!

Song of the Week: Chrisette Michelle - A Couple of Forevers from the Album "Better"

Gay Marriage: How Is It Affecting You?

With the recent victory over DOMA alot of religious people are saying that this puts the country in Hell's path.  Many pastors, especially Christians are still waging war on the LGBTQ Community and its allies.  My question to those who hate everything Gay is why should I be denied the right to marry who I love? How  is my love and sex life affecting you? If you are not gay, then you shouldn't be worried about who I am sleeping with. Stop throwing religion and your ignorance at me.  It seems that those who want to deny rights are just wanting to hear themselves talk. What about your right to marry? I didn't vote on your right to be straight and married.  Apparently your heterosexuality doesn't bother me and my Gayness obviously isn't affecting you. Could it be that you are secretly gay? How is Gay marriage affecting you?  It isn't.  You say Gay marriage is disrespectful, but what about polygamy and adultery. That is disrespectful to marriage not homosexuality. …

Manless Mom Equals Gay Son?....WTF

The picture above my piss you off. Some may agree with it and some may agree with it and others may no.  This picture above simply implies that if a male child is raised by a single mother that he will automatically be gay or not know how to be a man.    I've heard this so many times.  As a gay man, it pisses me the hell off. I was raised by my mother and I had plenty of male figures in my life, but I'm gay.  I have cousins who were raised by single mothers and friends who were raised by single mothers who are straight as an arrow and turned out to be better men than there fathers.  Some of them are married and then some of them are not married and have kids everywhere, but they take care of there responsibility.     I've learned that it doesn't matter if you came from a broken home or a stable home you have a path to take and it is your choice as to whatever path you take.     The picture above depicts a single mother with her son.  Then it shows the son being a …

Coming Back to the Loop

Hey Guys and Gals How are you all? Just Chiming In!!! Slowly but surely, I'm coming back to the loop Smooches, Musique

Saturday Thoughts

Hey Guys,
 Here are some thoughts from me.  Over the last few months, I haven't been able to really blog like I desire and once was.  Neither am I active on youtube as much.  Understanding that, life changes and what not, blogging is what I do.  You were there with me through relationships, make ups, break ups, and health things approaching.  I love you all and I appreciate you all for the love and prayers.
  Right now, I'm up on a hard decision.  I don't know what to do with this blog.  I'm actually thinking about closing it down.  I've made many attempts at trying to get the ball back rolling on this blog.  I used to hit you with current stuff. However, I feel like I'm out of the loop.  I guess its all apart of life.  Not everyone will be a celebrity blogger, but dang it, I'm a celebrity in my own right.  I'm about to go out tonight and have some fun I'll hit you all back....What the future holds, I don't know. We shall see.