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Stuff You Should Know- Narcissism: What About Me?

Josh and Chuck of "Stuff You Should Know" a podcast that educates the masses, recently talked about narcissism.  This an episode that will truly help you especially during this time of the holidays. Check out the podcast below.

The Diva that Stole Christmas

Diamyn, The Princess, Joins us for the First Time in Ages and Yannick, the Priestess Ain't Got time for ninjas in these streets. These two divas are gonna steal Christmas and make it Fabulous. Tweet us at BTransBPodcast
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Tomi Lahren Comes for Bey and Kaep and Gets STUNG by the Beyhive

Tomi Lahren just doesn't know when to quit!!! She must know by now that you do NOT come for King Bey. The Beyhive ain't having it!!!

   So today on social media, Tomi Lahren comes for Beyoncé and Colin Kaepernick mainly due to Kaep being present with the Sports Illustrated Muhammad Ali Legacy Award. The award is awarded to those whose "individuals whose dedication to the ideals of sportsmanship has spanned decades and whose career in athletics has directly or indirectly impacted the world."  We all are familiar with Colin Kaepernick's kneeling during the national anthem in order to protest social injustice as well as Beyonce's controversial hit "Formation" where she tackles also police brutality against minorities and the Black Community.
  This is where Tomi, the idiot comes in.  She has the gawl to say that King Bey is a "Cop hating" and Kaep is "cop and America hating" simply for calling out racism, social injustice and Amer…

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Death, Loss, and Life

So I realize that it has been a while since I've actually written in this blog.  I do try to post as much as possible. I'm coming to learn that blogging is a good cathartic release of all of the energy that has been plaguing life and more.  I'm thankful for the gift of writing and what it does for the human soul.
  I must admit the last week and a half has been kind of rough.  I recently loss one of my favorite uncles, Mario.  Sadly he passed away, but thankfully he is not suffering anymore and he's not in pain or having to battle being confined to a wheelchair. He's gotten his wings and I'm just glad that he's not suffering anymore.
  This has been the second loss I've experienced in my family since April, so it has been kind of crazy.  To add on top of that, I've started hormone replacement therapy and I've been real bitch!!! With so many people in my ear about this and that, I actually just need a reprieve from it all.  So I've decid…

Coming Out Transgender at Work from The Gender Rebels Podcast @TheGenderRebels

Transitioning is a process and is one heck of a journey. The Gender Rebels Podcast, Gives advice to the Transgender Community, In regards to "Coming Out Trangender at Work."

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Hypermasculinity and the Black Community


Dear Black Families: The Outro

Once upon a time I wrote a blog entry entitled "Dear Black Families: The Intro," This entry will serve as the outro for this particular train of thought. Here's some more thoughts for Black Families and for any family period to observe and think about.

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The Girl Scouts Are My Dealers


2017 and Things To Stop and Start

1. To my DL preachers: Stay with the life you chose and stop preaching against homosexual when you are one yourself

2. Work on your own soul salvation: Stop daming people to hell when you're life ain't all lilly white.

3. To my Blaqueer Community: Stop outing Down Low Men

4. Stop Outing People's HIV status

5. Stop expecting people to baby you up. Grow the F**** up!!!

6. Stop advising people to stop "fucking for free" when you are shacked up with a married DL man.  Sorry you are the weakest link.

7. Stop Allowing people to force their vision on you.

8. Stop hanging around chickens when you are a Dove.

9. Start working toward your goals.

10. If you have mental health issues, go to therapy.

11. Know your status and get tested.

12. Start focusing on your well being.

13. Start letting people carry their own weight. You are not their ass to carry their load.

14. Don't Entertain Foolishness!!!

Being Transgender and Facing The Gay Community

Well the last few hours have been VERY interesting.  I was on a social media site and I did a forum post on celibacy and this is the response I got:

"Greenleaf" and the Black Church Part 2: Prostitution of the Blaqueer

Part 1 of my "Greenleaf" blog series is up!!!

  For those who have kept up with one of the two Gay Story Lines in Oprah's new show "Greenleaf"  , you know that I'm about to go the fuck OFF about the prostitution of the Blaqueer community and the bullshit we often go through in the Black Church.
  In the last couple episodes of Greenleaf a new praise and worship leader by the name of Carlton Cruise, played by actor Parnell Damone Marcano, is sought out by The Bishop's singing daughter, Charity, played by Deborah Joy Winans (yes she's Bebe and Cece's Sister). Now the shade is that Charity's husband Kevin Saterlee played by Tye White is on the Downlow but we'll hit that point later.

Hurt People Hurt People

In my lifetime I have heard and experienced the unfortunate cliche “,hurt people hurt people.” This simply means that people who have been hurt at some point in their life lash out and inflict emotional, mental, physical, and sometimes even spiritual pain on those around them.  It could be that certain words are triggers, certain phrases can set a person off or that people simply accomplishing certain goals can cause the person who have been hurt to lash out.   Many questions may come to mind. One question may be “why do hurt people hurt others when they can heal or get help to heal that hurt.” Well, that is easier answered than accomplished.  When a person is hurt they tend to internalize the role as a victim. If a person has been victimized with in a great trauma, often times they carry around the weight of that hurt and the pain and use it as a defense mechanism.  The hurt that was done to that person may have caused them to feel insecure which can and will affect relationships an…

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@TheStarReport4U Loving You Is Painful

Luckey of the Starr Report, is one of my favorite mentors, Youtubers and Bloggers.
  In a recent video, Luckey talks about when "Loving You is Painful."
  In this video and Wednesday Sermon, Luckey talks about letting go of unhealthy emotional relationships and learning when to let go of a friendship. Check him out below,

Me Time and Life

Many of you have been wondering where I have been the last week or so. Well I've actually been taking me some me time that was much needed.    Since the release of the crazy, bitter ex, I've had to spend sometime regrouping. Through this time I was able to focus on me and regain my focus on my music and the move to the DMV. I had spent so much time trying to make something work, but the only thing that was working was my money.   Sometimes people don't want you because they love you. They see what you have to offer and what you can do for them and they neglect the love factor and focus on the "what can I get out of this person factor."     It is sad and unfortunate, but I'm thankful for the experience. Why? Well It is allowing me to transition like I desire. It is also allowing me to explore the polyamorous side of me.  I'm in a time of exploration and a time of transition. If you want to be apart of this transition please click on the link below. This…